God is the author of life. There is no one in the Bible who expressed a desire not to have any children we need look life from God's perspective.
Any kind of birth control and family planning is sinful in the Christian marriages which rob God of the royal priesthood children, a holy nation, a people belonging to God.
Since 1 Corinthians 7:2 clearly includes sex before marriage in the definition of sexual immorality, all of the Bible verses that condemn sexual immorality as being sinful also condemn sex before marriage as sinful. Sex between a husband and his wife is the only form of sexual relations of which God approves (Hebrews 13:4).
But in side the Marriage, Man was commissioned by God “to be fruitful and multiply” (Genesis 1:28).
Marriage was instituted by God as a stable environment in which to produce and raise children. Parenthood is a Gods is a blessing. There are sinful people who use birth control/family planning methods for a variety of selfish interests and unbiblical reasons sadly; children today are sometimes considered as a nuisance and a burden. Some people do not want children because they want to focus on themselves, their careers, materialism, their selfish desires, their freedom and their money and they don’t like to take a God ordained responsibility and commitment for a family. Often, this type of selfishness is at the root of avoiding kids. This kind of attitude is sinful. Romans 12:2 declares, “And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.”
God forms children in the womb (Psalm 139:13-16). God knows children before their birth (Jeremiah 1:5; Galatians 1:15). The only true provider for all mankind is God. Therefore, the woman who assumes she can simply postpone her childbearing in an effort to finish her education, establish her career, or pursue her travel goals may in fact be wasting her most fertile years of her motherhood by using birth control/Family planning. Having children in old age will create numerous health problems, complications and risks for a Mother as well as for child. Its not appropriate to postpone to have children’s in the beginning of marriage for selfish reasons.
Children are a vital part of God's plan for mankind and who could grow up to serve and worship him.
The purpose for our life, and for our families, is to know God and to glorify Him. Frequent mutually satisfying sex in marriage creates a stronger bond between husbands and wives. Saying No to have children is it is a refusal on the part of those who use it to be open to the children that God planned to send them. The Bible does tell us that children are a blessing from God. Psalm 127:3-5 says, “Sons are a heritage from the Lord, children a reward from him. Like arrows in the hands of a warrior are sons born in one's youth. Blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them. They will not be put to shame when they contend with their enemies in the gate. This is contrary to the way much of the world views children—as a hindrance and a burden. When we look at each child through the eyes of God, every child is a blessing and expanding God's kingdom.
God has a plan and purpose for every person born regardless of how that birth came about. In Jeremiah 29:11 God confirms David's thoughts, "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Let’s look at the Scripture more closely:
Birthcontol and family planning are sinful because they are, in and of themselves, not open to life and not open to the will of God. .when a couple engage in marital relations, their actions as well as their intentions must be open to life and open to the will of God.
We must place our faith in God and rely on Him to guide us through all situations and decisions that arise in life.God gave man free will. Man could choose to obey, or to disobey God.